Toastmasters International -The Stories We Tell

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Storytelling is woven into the fabric of every culture. It’s how we pass down our history, share cautionary tales, and celebrate moments of triumph. It’s also at the heart of Toastmasters.

From the very first speech—the Ice Breaker (my favorite)—we begin by telling our stories. We open a window into who we are, offering our club members a chance to connect with, understand, and support us. These stories create bonds that go beyond speaking—they build community.

But there’s another kind of story, just as powerful: the one we tell ourselves.

Our stories can spark action, shift mindsets, and ignite self-belief in someone who’s waiting for just a little encouragement.

What we whisper to ourselves about who we are and what we’re capable of has a profound impact. If we tell a story of fear, we stay small. But if we tell a story of possibility, we unlock courage. Suddenly, taking on a new role, starting a club, or entering a speech contest no longer feels out of reach.

When we speak of those who’ve gone before us—those who dared, who led, who struggled and overcame—we don’t just honor them. We pass along wisdom. We light the path for others.

As Toastmasters, we carry the responsibility and the privilege of being storytellers of hope and potential. Our stories can spark action, shift mindsets, and ignite self-belief in someone who’s waiting for just a little encouragement.

So here’s my challenge to you and to myself:

The next time you look in the mirror, choose to tell yourself a story of strength and possibility. Tell yourself that you’re ready for more, and believe it.

And the next time you speak with a fellow member, share a story that inspires them to believe they’re ready too—ready to invite a guest, start a club, lead a team, or step up in ways they never imagined.

When we shape the stories we tell—about ourselves and each other—we shape what becomes possible.

Let’s keep telling stories that matter. Stories that lift. Stories that lead. Because when we do, we become catalysts for growth—not just for ourselves, but for everyone around us.